Mother's Advice

ome time ago Baron Von Lodge was the head of a small country near Switzerland known as Lilliland.

The parents in Lilliland, like parents everywhere, wanted their children to grow up well and have a nice marriage. A very nice marriage, if possible.

Some daughters grew up with mistaken ideas about the success of a serious relationship. When a young adult finally realized they had made a mistake in judgment, it was sometimes too late to correct the situation.

“The first piece of advice is that in a conversation in a developing relationship, it is wise to learn the other person’s point of view before you decide to share your thoughts with that special someone. Otherwise, you may find yourself in an argument with a difference of opinion before you really get to know that person, and the budding relationship won’t even get started.

“Secondly, choose your friends wisely. The motto, ‘Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are,’ is very true.

“Thirdly, when at a party or dinner, remember to express your thoughts in such a way that would be appropriate if repeated by others at the table.

“Finally, learn to enjoy yourself even when you are not with other people.”

When parents discussed these points with their children early enough in their growing up, they did a lot to ensure the healthy development of their child.

Their children were reminded that the family was always there for love and support as they went through life.

“It is always important to remember that certain topics are very emotionally charged and the three most common such topics involve religion, politics and money. It is always wise to maintain a low profile when these questions are asked of you.”